>people say that's what happiness is—when you don't feel like you should be somewhere else, or someone else. a different person. someone younger, older. someone better. >(alejandro zambra, "chilean poet") >when i say "hope," i don't mean hope for anything in particular. i guess i just mean thinking that it's worth it to keep one's eyes open. (maggie nelson, "bluets") >in any moment, >on any given day, >i can measure my wellness >by this question: >is my attention on loving, >or is my attention on > who isn't loving me? >(andrea gibson, "wellness check")